So the best thing you can do is break up with him. I know it can sometimes seem like everyone but you has done 'it' but it's not true. . And unless there is a physical problem you should get used to intercourse fairly quickly. If you want to keep your virginity, people should respect that. Virgin by choice, and totally happy with it.
They may also be lieing to you just as you did to them about loosing there verginity. There's absolutely nothing wrong with not having had sex yet. And it probably won't be the mind-blowing scenario you've seen play out on screen. Everything was fine, my hymen is still there Good for you. Last words and read this carefully. And now we are almost 3 yrs together and we both love and cherish each other so much. I am simply providing my personal viewpoint.
But when a commenter suggests that they consider that autonomy to grant them the right to be choosy, even from a perspective they personally disagree with, it's evangelizing promiscuity. I'm really proud of you for having such good morals; it shows excellent character. Pride has no place in a relationship. Believe I am speaking from personal experience. I told him to hold on and wait for my body to adjust to him.
The main problem is trust. I guess I was just expecting to feel more adult. Virginity is a very special thing and can only be given to someone once. And finaly the whole regret thing, why feel regret? Sadly I think finding a new boyfriend is going to be your next big issue. Find new hobbies, do what you love and other things that can keep you busy. It felt like absolutely nothing to me, like someone touching my leg. I don't know what I should do I can't comfort him or even speak as he is very touchy on the subject I just want it to go away and be in the past, but it's so hard when he keeps bringing it up as he has thought about it I really don't know what to do please helpppp!!! A female reader, anonymous, writes 2 August 2007 : i'm 13 and i've lost my virginity, sometimes i'm glad i have because i wont have to lie about it if anyone asks, but sometimes its bad because i'm too young.
I am a 17 F in highschool. Family attitudes, personal values, or religious beliefs provide them with an inner voice that guides them in resisting pressures to get sexually involved before the time is right. Dont give him specific details. I know he doesn't just want sex because I was the one who brought the subjest up. If a boy truly loves you, he or she won't push or pressure you to do something you don't believe in or aren't ready for yet.
Unfortunately, some teens feel that they have to lose their virginity to keep up with their friends or to be accepted. I think if I'd known that beforehand, I would have been able to relax and enjoy it a little more. She was insistent on that. Though a person's body may feel ready for sex, sex also has very serious emotional consequences. A male reader, , writes 3 February 2014 : There is nothing to do as you can't change past. But I'm considering to just give it away to him because I do love him. But at the same time, he's not mine nor someone who will be there forever.
You werent with him and the only reason that you wish it didnt happen is for you. He kissed me and we soon began making out. He truly is the love of my life. We got into my bed and i asked him if i could put the condom on him. Do American men only want to marry virgins like men from my homeland? I thought I loved him.
Ultimately, it's your body and your health and welfare. And don't know if we will ever rekindle the relationship? Figure if I don't want to have sex with someone, why feel bad that I haven't had sex with anyone? You just wanted someone you liked, not someone who felt like your soulmate or someone you could see yourself eventually marrying. The first two boys I slept with both had major performance anxiety and shared my pregnancy paranoia. It kinda hurt but in a good way and a bad way. As I said, he won't marry me, and according to what I was told, only virgins have the chance to have marriages. Remember that losing your virginity is not cool. I ended up having an orgasm that nite.
Needless to say I dropped his ass fast when I realized he was trying to manipulate me. A few times I did question it, and thought about changing my mind, but I ultimately decided to stick with my decision to wait until I find someone I can trust and love enough to have sex with. If he asks tell him that you dont want to talk about it because it is the past. The day he arrived my mom had been at work and i was left to take care of my brothers. If you neither cheated nor lied, he's going to have to deal with his retroactive jealousy. Awkward young boys and girls. If what you did in your past makes this relationship impossible, that's not your fault nor his fault.
I didn't lose it to him because. Stay strong and do what's best for you, only you know what that is. Make sure you're relaxed and comfortbale with who your're with and it feels right. You've moved on and accepted your mistakes we've all made them , but your bf can't do the same and you'll be better off without him. As far as it hurting.